We like cake. The band Cake is really what I'm thinking of specifically. Personally I could never eat another slice of the dessert, and not be missing anything.
I know that people get to a certain age, and they see folks they know are their age, such as at a reunion, and they think to themselves, "do I look that old?". I know that I am doing pretty well for my age, this isn't about that...... but it almost is.
When I first started to listen to Cake, I was in high school. I don't know know if they were popular then, as they were a local band. I know they are famous now, 17 years later. Seventeen years later!?!? So in my pubescent mind, the band members were older than me, and cooler than me. I stored that information without really thinking about it.
If you look at the jacket's art on their recordings, you can't tell what the band members look like. The art and layout makes me want a piece of candy (but not cake). Up until last week, I had NEVER thought that actual, living and breathing fellows from Sacramento were who makes Cake, Cake. Clearly I had never seen them in person or in a photo.
is the lead singer and and ring leader for the band. Does he look 25?
I was shocked when he took the stage. I wasn't so much thinking, 'Am I really this old, this guy looks 45?!' as I was thinking, 'Am I really such a numbskull to think that the band members of Cake are still 25?'. I was surprised that I even came close to thinking, 'Am I really this old?'. I don't feel old, or even old enough to get to think that yet. I'm not even half way done, or at least that is my intention.
At the concert in Oakland, besides skipping the MC Hammer bit, and enjoying myself maybe even a bit too much, I was thinking about how old Cake is.
Maybe when I was younger I imagined they were cool, because they were musicians, and they were older than me, and they were famous, and I was not. Now nearly nothing about the situation has changed, except they have more wrinkles and life experience (by percentages, I'm gaining on them). My life experience since I was a kid, tells me none of that matters on the cool-meter. Someday I will be older, I can hold my own as a musician, and I don't want to be famous. It was nearly like going to your childhood house, or nursery school, and realizing how small the building is as an adult, or that even if cake is supposed to be yummy, it is okay that is isn't your favorite. Even still, Cake is rad!